{"id":1380,"date":"2011-05-09T17:04:56","date_gmt":"2011-05-10T00:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/blog\/?page_id=1380"},"modified":"2011-10-14T14:05:39","modified_gmt":"2011-10-14T21:05:39","slug":"5-steps-to-overcome-rebellion","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/attitudes-and-behaviors\/rebellion-vs-obedience\/5-steps-to-overcome-rebellion\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps to Overcome Rebellion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you struggling with a form of rebellion against authority? We have outlined a five-step process to help you change and heal in this area of your life. Take all the time you need with each of the steps below.<\/p>\n<h2>Step 1: \u00a0Adopt a Correct View of God<\/h2>\n<p>If you have a tendency toward rebellion, chances are good that your view of God has become skewed in some way. Perhaps you see God as a tyrant, selfishly wanting everything His own way. Your reaction to Him, then, could spill over to your relationships with other authority figures. Consider these points:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>God\u2019s commandments are fair and good.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>He is the Rock; His deeds are perfect. Everything He does is just and fair. He is a faithful God who does no wrong;\u00a0how just and upright He is!<\/em> (Deuteronomy 32:4)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>God will hold us accountable for our rebellion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>The LORD is slow to anger and filled with unfailing love, forgiving every kind of sin and rebellion. But He does not excuse the guilty. He lays the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected\u2014even children in the third and fourth generations. <\/em>(Numbers 14:18)<\/p>\n<p>Embark on a study of the justice and sovereignty of God as reflected in Scripture. Keep an open mind as you encounter biblical truth, asking God to change your view of Him to make it more nearly conformed to the truth.<\/p>\n<h2>Step 2: \u00a0Revise Your False Beliefs<\/h2>\n<p>If you have mistaken ideas about people and the world, you will rebel against authority figures and especially the greatest Authority Figure of them all\u2013God. Evaluate your beliefs with the following questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do you believe you are not subject to properly instituted authorities?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Those in positions of authority have been placed there by God.<\/em> (Romans 13:1)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do you believe you can defy authority without consequences?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>You will say, \u201cHow I hated discipline! If only I had not ignored all the warnings!\u201d<\/em> (Proverbs 5:12)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do you believe God\u2019s commandments and will are unreasonable?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>I will walk in freedom, for I have devoted myself to Your commandments. <\/em> (Psalm 119:45)<\/p>\n<p>Trace the theme of obedience through Scripture. In the process, test your beliefs about how families, businesses, churches, and society should operate. Choose to accept the principle of obedience to proper authority.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/attitudes-and-behaviors\/rebellion-vs-obedience\/5-steps-to-overcome-rebellion\/2\/\">Continue to next page<\/a><\/em><br \/>\n<!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<h2>Step 3: \u00a0Repent of Your Sin<\/h2>\n<p>Where does your rebellion usually manifest itself? At home? In church? At work? In society at large? Toward God? Is your problem disobedience, insubordination, lawlessness, insolence, scoffing, or disrespect? Pinpoint your sin habit. Admit it to yourself. Own it.<\/p>\n<p>When you are ready, pray the following prayer in faith, trusting that God will forgive your sin and empower your obedience.<\/p>\n<p>God, You have established structures of authority to make things work better for Your children. Yet I have sometimes strived not to support but to break down those structures. In particular, I am guilty of _________. It is a sin, and I am sorry for it. Please forgive me now. Cleanse me entirely of my sin of __________. Then fill me with Holy Spirit power to enable me to resist the temptation of rebellion from now on. In the name of Christ the King, amen.<\/p>\n<p>If you have harmed others with your sin, apologize to them. Seek reconciliation and offer restitution where appropriate.<\/p>\n<h2>Step 4: \u00a0Defend against Spiritual Attacks<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t breathe too big a sigh of relief after repenting of rebellion. Attacks from the world, the flesh, and the Devil are all but inevitable now. These spiritual enemies want to draw you back into disobedience to God.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The world system tells us, \u201cThe way to a good life is to have total freedom and do whatever you want.\u201d Would God agree? Of course not. He says, \u201cTrue freedom comes from submitting to proper authorities, especially Mine.\u201d Overcome the world by rejecting its values and embracing God\u2019s.<\/li>\n<li>Your flesh, or sinful nature, has always enjoyed the sense of power and autonomy that comes from rebelling against authority. It craves to get that feeling back. What you need to do is remember that your flesh is already dead; you have no need to obey its dictates. Obey the Spirit and not the flesh.<\/li>\n<li>The Devil is hatching schemes to tempt you to rebel again, doing damage to you and others in the process. Among the other pieces of spiritual armor listed in Ephesians 6, put on the helmet of salvation to protect your mind from Satan\u2019s poisonous thoughts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The attacks of the world, the flesh, and the Devil are formidable, but not impossible to defeat. With God acting in your life, you are more than able to repel each assault thrown at you.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/attitudes-and-behaviors\/rebellion-vs-obedience\/5-steps-to-overcome-rebellion\/3\/\">Continue to next page<\/a><\/em><br \/>\n<!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<h2>Step 5: \u00a0Flee Temptation<\/h2>\n<p>Take practical steps to avoid sliding back into rebellion and to cement an attitude of obedience in your heart.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Focus <\/strong>on your relationship with God.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In your devotional and worship times, focus on God as King over all the universe. Learning to be obedient to this Sovereign will help you be obedient in all areas of life.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Latch <\/strong>on to God\u2019s promises.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Find helpful verses in Scripture and then commit them to memory to help you in your struggles against the temptation to rebel. One such verse for you may be the following:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>The commandments of the Lord are right,\u00a0bringing joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are clear,\u00a0giving insight for living.<\/em> (Psalm 19:8)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Establish<\/strong> safeguards.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Think about the usual sources of temptation for you to rebel. Identify precautions you can take to protect yourself from those sources. Let the following examples spark your imagination:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 \u00a0If you tend to be insubordinate to your boss, start calling this person \u201csir\u201d or \u201cma\u2019am\u201d as a reminder of the respect you owe.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 \u00a0If you are inclined to scoff at church leaders\u2019 direction, take the lowliest position of service in the church you can find\u2014and fulfill it without complaint.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 \u00a0If you tend to be critical of government officials, send a card of thanks to your congressional representative the next time he or she does something honorable.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 \u00a0Ask a trusted Christian friend to hold you accountable in your commitment to not rebel against authority.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Expect<\/strong> victory.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Developing a submissive spirit is not easy, but you have the Holy Spirit living in you and producing in you a spirit of obedience. Be confident and rejoice in every sign of progress.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/attitudes-and-behaviors\/rebellion-vs-obedience\/\">Return to Rebellion vs. Obedience<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you struggling with a form of rebellion against authority? We have outlined a five-step process to help you change and heal in this area of your life. Take all the time you need with each of the steps below. Step 1: \u00a0Adopt a Correct View of God If you have a tendency toward rebellion, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"parent":1372,"menu_order":15,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"advgb_blocks_editor_width":"","advgb_blocks_columns_visual_guide":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":""},"coauthors":[],"author_meta":{"author_link":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/author\/ddunn\/","display_name":"ddunn"},"relative_dates":{"created":"Posted 11 years ago","modified":"Updated 10 years ago"},"absolute_dates":{"created":"Posted on May 9, 2011","modified":"Updated on October 14, 2011"},"absolute_dates_time":{"created":"Posted on May 9, 2011 5:04 pm","modified":"Updated on October 14, 2011 2:05 pm"},"featured_img_caption":"","featured_img":false,"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1380"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1380"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1380\/revisions"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1380"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}